4 Ways to Savor Each Moment of Motherhood — The Better Mom

I’m not ready because I wish I would have savored each moment with her more fully. I was in such a hurry for her to grow up so that I could get my ‘things” done that I feel like I missed out on treasuring the time we had. Whether it was a middle of the night nursing or few minutes snuggling together when she ought to have been napping. Whether it was my impatience on helping her with homework or my frustration over how long it took her to verbally unpack her school day.

My full plate. My “to do” lists. My dreams. They all robbed me of something I wanted so much more — to enjoy the moments of motherhood and this privilege God had given me to raise children.

Those moments wished away now feel like they disappeared in a blink. 

Hindsight really does put life in perspective. You can’t help but realize the impact of skewed priorities. And so, here I am, 16 years into my motherhood journey, and I can either live with regret over “what wasn’t” or embrace every moment from this point forward. 

My motherhood journey is not over, even if the season has changed.

So with the mercy of God pouring rich and wide and deep over my life, I’m committed, once again (yes, I believe it’s an ongoing, never finished on this earth process) to yield my life to His purposes.

I’m calling it a mission to live more fully in the Mom Blinks — those moments of motherhood that we’re tempted to rush through in the pursuit of something that isn’t any better. 

I think of this mission in light of what Jesus said about Mary’s choice to sit at His feet rather than run around overly distracted and all too busy like her sister Martha (Luke 10:38-42). Mary knew the one thing, the good thing, the portion that was for her in that moment. I so think this easily applies to us, as moms, too.

I want His priorities to be mine, especially as a savor these last years of motherhood with my oldest and invest purposefully into her younger siblings. So in an effort to be super intentional, I’m embracing a MOM Blink Mission and challenging you to do the same:

1. GIVE THANKS TO GOD. In your prayer journal, give God thanks for the times in which I gave time towards whole-hearted interaction with my children.

2. CAPTURE THE MOMENT. Since our phones are always with us, photograph those moments of real life with your kiddos.

3. ASK for ACCOUNTABILITY. Ask a few close friends to check in with you every week and see how you’re doing to savor this time with your children.

4. GREEN STRING REMINDER. I tend to forget these little convictions from the Lord, so to make this one last, let’s tie a green string around our wrists and wear it for 30 days. Why green? Because it reminds us of how we want to grow in this area of motherhood.

I pray that you would get the most of this season of motherhood. May you walk in His grace and embrace His fresh mercies everyday, not only as moms, but as His chosen, holy, and dearly loved daughters.

Because there’s more,

Elisa Pulliam